Be (B)eautiful: The best way to get over a broken heart is to spend time not thinking about it. Time heals all wounds. So make sure to be there for your girls when they need it the most. Ice cream, a few bottles of wine,  good gossip, and a ton of  laughs help heal a wounded heart in no time.

Be (A)uthentic: Being clear up front as to what you are looking for when you meet someone is vital. Be honest with yourself- do you really want to settle down or just fool around because that is what he wants? If you’re not feeling it then let him know! Don’t lead him on- it’s just a waste of everyone’s time and a BAD girls time is oh so precious. It should only be spent on those who are  worthy of it!

Be (D)etermined: If the guy you are dating is putting very little into the relationship (i.e emotionally, physically, financially, etc) then he should not be the one with the most control and power in the relationship. How is a guy who invests nothing into his relationship with you- controlling the relationship??!!! That sounds ass backwards to me! DEAD him- like yesterday!