It’s important to be there for the people you care about, but its even more important that you are there for you.
Being a people pleaser will only get you so far. If too much is on your plate or something makes you feel uncomfortable don’t feel guilty for saying “no” or an “I don’t think so”.
Are you comfortable being straight up and saying “NO”?
Yup! I’ve gotten very comfortable with the word NO! Especially when it comes to some people! Some people are just vampires and will suck you dry if you let them! No means No hehehe!
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Hell yes!
Glad to hear you say no! 🙂
I need to follow this rule more with men 😦
Yes ma’am! 🙂
it took me, but I learned that a sincere no is better than a false yes. I am comfortable with my decisions, and I love your tips, they give us even more strength to be a strong women!
kisses and have a great weekend!!
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So true and very well said! 🙂 thank you so much!
I used to say yes to everyone, but I have definitely said “no” more over the past few years – so much more comfortable doing so!
It might seem harder at first but ts always better in the long run!
i’m really good at telling people no. had to practice this on sunday in church of all places. i was being pressured to volunteer for something and i stood my ground and said no at least 4 times. finally they realized i was serious.