All posts filed under: Love & Relationships

5 Things Girls do on Facebook that Guys HATE.

1. Be all up in their Business. Snooping through a guys Facebook page for dirt is so lame, especially if you go around questioning past history via wall to wall. 2. The Photo Album Titled: ME Constantly posting pics of yourself that you are clearly sitting around and taking on your free time makes guys think you are either way too into yourself or  just desperately seeking attention. 3.  Write Something…. Men Suck. They All do. Posting the ever popular yet annoying anti-male status update makes you look immature and most guys find it to be a major turn off. 4.  Facebook Addicts Anonymous Men like mystery, you have to keep them guessing not fully informed on your whereabouts and entire life story via Facebook. 5.  Relationship Status: It’s Complicated. Harrassing your new guy to change his relationship status on Facebook is mega annoying. It might be a red flag for you if he is hesitant to do so, but I personally believe you should be dating for at least 6 months before anything goes public on Facebook.  Save yourself …

So When Were You Going to Tell Me?

I was watching the latest season of the Real World and a relationship topic came up that sparked my interest. How far into a relationship should you inform your partner about something from your past? More importantly, what if your past may have a negative effect on your relationship? Real World Scenario: Dustin kept didn’t get to tell his roommates and more specifically, Heather (his boo on the show), that he was involved in doing porn for a gay men’s website when he was younger.  His roommates all felt “lied” to. Should Dustin have told Heather and his roommates from the jump? How soon is too soon? People come in and out of our lives and only so few stay so do we need to inform everyone we get involved with of our past? Do we wait until things get serious? Is that too late? Ms. B. BAD Says…  I personally believe a persons past should stay where it belongs and that is in the past. New people who come into your life shouldn’t feel entitled to knowing everything about …

3 Things I Didn’t Understand About Guys When I Was 16 yrs old

1. Men rely heavily on the out of sight, out of mind theory. They are visual people so they try their hardest to remove any and every thought of you when things go sour, but it doesn’t always mean they don’t care. 2. During an argument a guy needs time in his “man cave” to reflect on what was said before he can respond back. So if he is not saying  anything to you after you just finished chewing his head off, relax, it is normal. Annoying as all hell, yes, but it’s how they operate, or something… 3. He is a  “Mr Fix It” by nature so while you are venting about your day he is trying to find ways to solve your problems. This is how he thinks he is helping and more importantly making you feel better. Most of the time all we want is a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear.  Men don’t know this so we have to put them on. To be continued & continued & continued… …

Couple of The Month: Amanda ♥ DC

♥ Her: Amanda Allison ♥ Age: 25 ♥ Spreads Love in: CA ♥ Zodiac: Leo/Virgo ♥ Him: DC ♥ Age: 24 ♥ Spreads Love in: CA ♥ Zodiac: Leo In Love Since: Feb. 14th, 2♥♥6 ♥ How They Met: Amanda: We met through MySpace, LOL. He randomly found me online, read my profile, and sent me a message. We e-mailed and talked on the phone for about four months before I got the courage to meet him in person. He spent the entire day making me a present (a home-made card and a heart filled with red skittles, my favorite candy at the time), only to have me spill it all over my car seats later that night. Oops. ♥ How was your first date? DC: Awesome.  We went to a park in the city, where I surprised Mandy with a picnic. The weather was perfect, too. There was a clear, blue sky and gentle, cool breeze that felt good on the skin. We ate in the middle of a field and laid on a blanket holding hands for a …

{Letter #1} Dear Future Hubby,

Loving a B.A.D Girl isn’t easy, we demand a lot, but only because we KNOW what we deserve and we don’t ever settle. Here are a few  things about me I want to share with you: 1. I am not a morning person and after 20 some odd years it looks like shit isn’t changing anytime soon. 2. I make slamming baked ziti! 3. I love random acts of affection. Kiss me on my forehead; tell me I am pretty while I discuss my day with you. 4. Breakfast sandwiches make me VERY happy. 5. I don’t dress up for male attention. So when you see me looking good don’t get mad just be happy to call me yours.    I think that’s all for now! 😉 xXO, Your BAD Girl

Love Jams Playlist: “Like a Star” by Corrine Bailey Rae

This is one of my favorite love songs that my bestie put me on to a few years ago. Its an oldie, but a goodie. I absolutely love Corrine’s voice and the words of this song really resonate with me. It’s so damn smooth.  Sit back, relax and enjoy.   “You’ve got this look I can’t describe, You make me feel like I’m alive, When everything else is a fade, Without a doubt you’re on my side, Heaven has been away too long, Can’t find the words to write this song, Oh… Your love “ What do you think? Have you heard this song before? Diggin’ it?

A Photo Diary of Things I LOVE.

True Love Tuesday Posts don’t necessarily have to be about relationships with significant others. So I want to share with you all a few photos (some from my Blackberry) of things I am crazy about right now. My Best B.A.D Girl (BBG) Alyssa received a real blessing this week and I am so grateful. I love you. Took a quick road trip to Dirty Jerz for some  fast food goodness with the boy friend. The tater tots were the best I have ever had. Ever. It was also his first time at Sonic. Major win. How dope is this ring? Toughens up any outfit instantly. Copped it at PNK Elephant. Give me a good glass of Sangria and I will be your bestest friend. 😉 Effing obsessed with this studded bracelet. I literally don’t take it off right now. It’s another PNK Elephant goody. What are some things you are lovin’ right now?

V-Day Margaritas and Pura Lopez Shoe love!

This past Valentines Day was one of the best I have ever celebrated. My boyfriend was so thoughtful! I prefer a sweet well thought out gift over flashy diamonds any day. It’s important that effort is put into special moments because it really shows your dedication to the other person.  We had an  amazing night celebrated over triple flavored margaritas and Mexican food on the Upper West Side. The food was delicious, but as per usual my boyfriend wound up ordering a better tasting dish and I couldn’t help but eat off of his plate. He ordered sea food stuffed lobster and I got tacos. I know, I know, I pretty much brought it upon myself by ordering such a boring dish. I have to get over my urge to always want to try the tacos at every new Mexican place I go to. The lovely shoes I am rockin’ were part of my Valentine’s Day surprises. They are by Pura Lopez and can be found on Yoox. I couldn’t believe he bought me them …

A B.A.D Girl in Love is Never Scared to Get Sexy!

Be (B)eautiful: Get sexy this Valentine’s Day with some lingerie pieces from Fredericks of  Hollywood! Be (A)uthentic: If there is one thing a B.A.D girl doesn’t do its FAKE an orgasm!  He will think everything was satisfactory and won’t learn what it takes to actually get you off.  Just give him a passionate kiss afterward to show that you still enjoyed it and work towards the goal during the next round. Be (D)etermined: Get your night started while sippin’ on a glass of Love Potion 214. This afrodisatic drink is guaranteed to get you and your partner in the mood for some good lovin.’ I am giving away a bottle to 2 lucky readers! If you haven’t done so already ENTER HERE. Deadline is this Friday!!

True Love Tuesday: Recipe for a Perfect Anniversary.

Ingredients: 1 Happy Couple 2 cups of ripe respect 2 cups of pure honesty 2 cups of good conversation 2 hot ensembles 1 pair of sexy stilettos 8 tablespoons of sugar 2 parts fresh peeled thoughtfulness 1 bag of super sweet creativity Fresh picked laughter and Fun 2 hearts together as one 1 romantic setting ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ Directions: 1. Take 1 happy couple and put them in sexy outfits (depending on location- clothing is optional) 2. Place happy couple in a romantic setting 3. Stir in 2 cups each of respect, honesty & love and blend until smooth 4. Chop in 2 parts thoughtfulness 5. Add in a splash of creativity 6. Stir in doses of fun and laughter 7. Top it off with a sugary kiss or 2…or 3 Bon Anniversaire! xo