All posts tagged: getting what you want

“Never be the first to arrive at a party or the last to go home and never, never be both” ~David Brown

Be (B)eautiful: Party hard, but always keep it classy not trashy. Be (A)uthentic: If a guy calls you a bitch it’s because you struck a nerve. If they call you a heartless bitch it’s because you’ve got them running scared, but if they call you a cold, heartless bitch it’s even better because they know you are someone they will never be able to subjugate (control). p.s and those are the guys you kick to the curb!! Be (D)etermined: As a BAD Girl its known that you (and your girls) are the life of the party. So that means you are showing up late because you are  1) fashionably late or  2.) coming from a prior engagement, and 3.) you know its super lame to be there early before all the fun starts. Same goes for leaving a party, the only people hanging around are the ones with nothing better to do.  You always have something to do even if it’s just going home to snuggle with your guy. 😉

“How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something, but to be someone.” ~Gabrielle “Coco” Chanel

Be (B)eautiful: Thank everyone who supports you throughout the day. The list of those who you come in contact with is endless. Be (A)uthentic: Here is some food for thought: Would you want to be friends with you? Think about your friendships and how you treat people. Would you consider yourself are a great friend? Be (D)etermined: Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend. I know us females want to be nosy and find out what the ex g/f was like b/c we want to know what attracts him and of course what she did wrong! But refrain from speaking about the ex at all costs and if he asks you questions about him keep it simple. Don’t go gushing your heart out as if he was one of your girls and not your love interest. Give him the facts of the relationship without the accusations and bull shit.  For example: We just weren’t compatible or he wasn’t ready to settle down.  And most important, always make yourself look like the innocent party. …

“Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.” ~ Antoine de Saint

Let it be (B)eautiful: When you visit your partners family for the first time always try to bring something, even if its small. If your partner is of a different ethnic background  it would be nice to bring a treat or dish that is typical from where your family is from. You want to bring a piece of you into their home. Let it be (A)uthentic: Your mistakes from past relationships should never be repeated. They happened during the practice round. Now that you are in the real thing you want to make sure you play the game right. So take those lessons you learned and apply them to your current situation. Remember how you and your ex partner felt and work to avoid those feelings again now. Let it be (D)etermined to Last: You and your partner should be on the same page when it comes to plans of living together, marriage, kids, a dog, buying a house, whatever.  If your partner is dead set on NOT having a child and you want nothing …

“You get better sex when you know your own body. How can you expect a man to know your body when you don’t know what pleases you?” ~Eva Longoria

Be (B)eautiful: Looking sleazy is not sexy. Here is a good rule of thumb to follow when dressing up to keep it classy yet still look sexy.  If you are showing legs/booty keep the girls up top (boobies) in hiding. If you want to let the girls come out and play a little bit than throw on some jeans or a longer bottom. Be (A)uthentic: There are plenty of women who, in the interest of being nice, have ended up sleeping with people with whom they later realized we wouldn’t even have a cup of coffee with. If this is you there is no need to beat yourself up over it, but it is definitely not okay to continue this now that you are a BAD girl! Get in touch with yourself and choose carefully the people with whom we share our bodies. Be (D)etermined: A good girl has sex because she is doing it to make her partner happy. A BAD girl has sex to make HERSELF as well as her partner happy.  This …

“I was raised to believe that excellence is the best deterrent to racism or sexism. And thats how I operate my life.” ~Oprah Winfrey

Be (B)eautiful: There is no Excuse for NOT Cleansing your face after a days workout of makeup. Use your hands or a soft cloth w/a gentle cleanser to remove any residue left behind, a toner to give your skin elasticity, and a good moisturizer to keep your skin in top notch shape. I am absolutely obsessed with my 3 step kit from Artistry Essentials. My face always feels super soft  and smells heavenly. 🙂 Be (A)uthentic: If its true that you start being called a bitch when you’re successful, then we should embrace the opportunity to be called a bitch in the workplace. It usually means that we are right or that we are insisting on excellence from others. Be (D)etermined: Women owners of businesses with revenues of $1 million or more were more likely than men owners to have started their companies rather than have purchased, inherited, or acquired them in some other way. Now that is pretty BAD ass!

“It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.” ~e.e. cummings

Be (B)eautiful: Health is beautiful. There’s nothing beautiful about destroying your body, even if you do it slowly by neglecting your body. Be (A)uthentic: One of my favorite sites to go to for unique jewelry pieces is! I can’t stop obsessing over these little gems! I love how I can wear them with a casual day look and a more trendy night outfit. How cute are they BG’s?? Be (D)etermined: If there is one thing I can’t stand about people and grammar  it’s when they say: “I could care less“. This statement is incorrect and it means that there actually is some interest!!  The correct statement is “I COULDN’T care less“, which means you pretty much don’t give a damn at all. So next time you’re in an argument I hope the correct statement comes out of your mouth please. 😉

Love is like war, Easy to begin but hard to end. ~ Anonymous

Let it be (B)eautiful: When you are having a rough day or a moment of stress or pain your partner should be the one to relax you and remind you of all that you have going for yourself. Let it be (A)uthentic: You gotta have passion. If you aren’t passionate and willing to fight for your relationship than why are you even in it? Let it be (D)etermined to Last: I like today’s quote, but I don’t think it should be taken at face value. There are many times where people remain in unhealthy relationships b/c of “love”.  When love hurts, all the time, or at least more than half of the time, guess what? It isn’t love. Get the hell out. BAD girls do not tolerate being put down, taken advantage of or disrespected. Realize that you are special, you’re a BAD b$tch and no man will ever play you out!

“Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we’re here we should dance.” ~Unknown

Be (B)eautiful: This dress is super cute to dance in 🙂 Pair it with nude heels or even gold for a completely flawless look. 🙂 Be (A)uthentic: Eliminate all the negative from your life and see how quickly your world will change for the better! Be (D)etermined: Life is what you make it. You are going to have your good days, bad days and GREAT days. It’s up to you to live your life how you want it to be. Sometimes things happen that we don’t expect and as BAD girls we must continue to push forward and enjoy life. We have to take a moment to stop and D A N C E .

“But seriously how can you figure out what you’re made of if it’s always easy.” -Kris Langard

Be (B)eautiful: The most beautiful and inspiring women in my opinion are the ones who have faced challenges, beat the odds, experienced  hard times and still came out on top. The women who still smile and laugh even when things aren’t going right. Strength is beautiful. Be (A)uthentic: Be in reality about the facts of who you are, and what you have done in your life (the good and the bad). See yourself as a mosaic with a hundred tiles, and tell the truth about what is actually there; it’s always mostly good. Be (D)etermined: The BADDEST females are the ones who conquer. They find themselves in a difficult situation and instead of giving up they say “I got this, I am not a quitter.” They know that its mind over matter and with determination you can accomplish your goals and the victory will be that much sweeter because you worked hard for it.  When something is just given to you with very little effort on your part it can be nice , but never …

“Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not.”~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Be (B)eautiful: If you don’t carry an inner beauty within you, it doesn’t matter how many beautiful people, sites and objects you surround yourself with. Love who you were, are and will become. Be (A)uthentic: I like to believe in people every now and then, so I don’t have a problem with giving second chances to those I feel DESERVE IT. Like the saying goes, “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, I’m kicking your a$$!” 😉 Be (D)etermined: The year is almost coming to a close. How many of your goals for the year have you accomplished? There is still time left so make it happen!