All posts tagged: growing up

How to Be Okay With Growing Up While In Your Twenties

It’s something that we all have to go through and it doesn’t occur at the same time for everyone  (hey male species I am giving you the side eye), but it should does eventually happen.  There comes a point when we make that shift and all of a sudden we see the world in a different way. I know it can be scary, but don’t trip. I got you. Here are my tips for dealing with the process of “growing up”: 1. Stop Caring So Much Think back to when you were in high school and you actually cared too much. It’s so much better to no longer give two f*cks about what anyone has to say or think about you. 2. Find Yourself  Enjoy the exploration while you discover who you are and what you want to do with your life.  You still have time. 3. Your Time Will Come  People are  getting engaged and having babies and you can’t stop them. 4. Get Carded Get excited every time you get carded just like …

“In this day and age, some turn 18 and think they’re a man or a woman and that’s it, but that’s just not true. You have to establish your manhood or your womanhood with actions.” ~Orlando McGuire

Be (B)eautiful: Something so simple as wishing a cashier a nice day or greeting them with a smile makes a big difference. Be (A)uthentic: The same way that you are quick to own up to your accomplishments you should also own up to your mistakes. A real BAD girl isn’t embarrassed or afraid to admit her wrongs because she knows they all add up the woman that she is. Be (D)etermined: Age is seriously nothing but a number! You can be 30 and still acting like a 16-year-old. It is entirely up to you when you decide to become an “adult”. For some it happens sooner than others, but it is ultimately your actions and how you handle yourself in situations that really defines you, not that stupid little number.