All posts tagged: romantic ideas

A B.A.D Girl in Love is Never Scared to Get Sexy!

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Be (B)eautiful: Get sexy this Valentine’s Day with some lingerie pieces from Fredericks of  Hollywood! Be (A)uthentic: If there is one thing a B.A.D girl doesn’t do its FAKE an orgasm!  He will think everything was satisfactory and won’t learn what it takes to actually get you off.  Just give him a passionate kiss afterward to show that you still enjoyed it and work towards the goal during the next round. Be (D)etermined: Get your night started while sippin’ on a glass of Love Potion 214. This afrodisatic drink is guaranteed to get you and your partner in the mood for some good lovin.’ I am giving away a bottle to 2 lucky readers! If you haven’t done so already ENTER HERE. Deadline is this Friday!!

“You can have my heart or we can share it like the last slice.” ~Drake

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Let it be (B)eautiful: Your true home is with the person that you love. You should feel most comfortable and at ease with that person by your side no matter where you both may be physically at the moment. Let it be (A)uthentic: Long distance relationships can be tough, I know this from experience. But if you love someone more than anything, then distance only matters to the mind, not to the heart. Let it be (D)etermined to Last: If you are a foodie like me then I bet you enjoy your meal right down to the last morsel.  However, when you love someone you should be willing to share your last bite so they can enjoy too. This can also be applied to other things like sharing personal space, time, the TV, ideas, pillows, etc. Sharing is sexy. 😉

Your relationship should be a judgment free zone, full of respect, hot cocoa & cuddling!

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Let it be (B)eautiful: The cold weather is here, which means everyone wants a cuddle buddy. If you are fortunate enough to have one than you best make sure you take full advantage. Hot cocoa, a good flick , and a warm blanket sounds divine. Let it be (A)uthentic: I love how if I am having a rough/emotional/stressful day I can go to my guy fall into his arms and let out a good cry. Your relationship should be a judgment free zone. No make up on, bad hair day, PMS and all, you should feel comfortable being you. Let it be (D)etermined to Last: Respect. This one word says it all. If you don’t respect your partners feelings expect your relationship to have a first class seat on a train to nowhere. If your partner feels differently than you do, instead of flipping out, take a second to understand their side. This is where communication comes in. Take a few minutes where you both explain your point of view, put your pride on a …

“We were given: Two hands to hold. Two legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find.” ~Unknown

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Let it be (B)eautiful: With the Holiday season rapidly approaching I am a big fan of doing activities that remind you of childhood. Things like apple picking, pumpkin decorating, baking cookies, card making,etc. It may sound cheesy, but I bet it will be fun to introduce your inner child to your partners if they haven’t already met! Let it be (A)uthentic: It can be difficult when you are dating and it just isn’t working. It may even hurt, but what you need to realize is that it happened for a reason. I have had my fair share of heartbreak and thinking, but why can’t I find love? The answer? That person is not meant for you. I really do believe we all have that one person out there, so don’t settle b/c you feel rushed. Let it be (D)etermined to Last: When you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and energy in it more deeply because you now experience ownership of that relationship. That person is now YOUR significant other and …

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.” ~Elizabeth Gilbert

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Let It be (B)eautiful: There’s nothing sexier than a man enjoying a meal you have just prepared for him. The satisfaction of knowing you have completely pleased him is worth the amount of time you spent slaving over that stove. Surprise your man with a romantic home cooked meal, maybe even a sexy outfit you know he would like, and he will be kissing your feet. 😉 Let it be (A)uthentic: I see so many women completely lose themselves in relationships. I in fact have been a victim to that myself. I thought he knew what was best for me. I thought I had to love him more than myself and that all of my time should be devoted to his needs. However over time, I grew strength as a woman and realized that real love, does not mean you have to forget who you are, or put aside your values, needs and wants so the other person can be happy. Real love is being able to SHARE all those things with your partner without …

*Special Feature*: Style Me BAD Presents its Couple of the Month! ♥

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Meet Our Hot Couple : Jiselle & Eugene! {Jiselle is a 23-year-old from Long Island, NY. She is currently a student at John Jay College in NYC studying forensic Psychology and also working  full-time as an Executive Assistant for a Real Estate Firm. Eugene is 25 from Queens, NY. He currently works as an Investigative Technician for Target Corp. Jiselle is a Capricorn and Eugene is an Aries for all you astrology lovers! They have been together officially since June 11, 2007. Jiselle is a good friend of mine and when I asked her how it felt to be chosen as our “It Couple” she replied, “It feels great! There are so many people who have given up on love and I think featuring a “Couple of the Month” is a great reminder that it still exists and is within everyone’s reach!”} SMB: So tells us how you guys met? Jiselle: “I was a freshman at St. Johns University and he was a junior and also one of the orientation leaders. He was way hot, …

You make me want to be a better man. ~ Jack Nicholson, “As Good As It Gets”

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Let it be (B)eautiful: As BAD  girls we tend to think we are unbreakable and for the most part we are! However, let your guy feel like a protector every now and then. Hold his hand while crossing the street, let him walk on the outside, hug him during a scary movie, allow him to figure out the directions when you are lost. Men pride themselves on being able to protect and support their partner. Its part of their male make up. So as much as you may want to tell him where to go when lost, just bite your tongue a few times. 😉 Let it be (A)uthentic: It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other. Let it be (D)etermined to Last: A strong woman has the ability to make those around her want to be better versions of themselves. If your man isn’t already striving to be the best he can be then he should be inspired by you …

“Maybe all men are a drug. Sometimes they bring you down and sometimes, like now, they get you so high.” ~SATC

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Let it be (B)eautiful: Guys like to front like they are macho and tough, but for most of them when it come to being with their girl they love to be babied. So treating him like a toddler every now and then will have him swooning. 😉 Let is be (A)uthentic:  You should always make sure that YOU are being treated how you want and that you are happy. Relationships are hard work and not always a walk in the park. So its understandable that you guys experience a few lows. However, these lows should not outweigh or even come close to the amount of highs you experience. When you are truly happy life should  feel like you’re on Ecstasy practically every day… Let it be (D)etermined to Last: Don’t expect your man to be responsible for every anniversary and special occasion. Yes, we BAD girls love to be spoiled, but so does your guy.  Taking him out to do something he will genuinely enjoy or that he would maybe do with his boys instead …

“Trying to make someone fall in love with you is about as pointless as trying to control who you fall in love with.” ~Unknown

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Let it be (B)eautiful: There is nothing better than feeling protected when you are with your guy. You should feel safe and know that if anything were to happen he would be there for you. On the flip side your man likes to know that he makes you feel protected. So let him know that! Let it be (A)uthentic: If a man tells you he doesn’t feel a certain way for you then believe him. There are guys you can have fun with and guys to be in love with and every guy you meet isn’t going to be THAT guy. Let it be (D)etermined to Last: Forcing a relationship to work is wasted energy. I think too many people are actually forcing marriages and that explains why our divorce rate is so high. If you don’t feel it 100% then it’s just not right.  I know its hard not to get nervous as you get older and more people around you are getting engaged, married, having babies, etc. If this doesn’t seem to be …

“I knew I loved you before I met you…” ~ Savage Garden

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Let it be (B)eautiful: My boyfriend knows how to make me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world without any words ever being spoken. Let it be (A)uthentic: We dated back in high school and I wrote down the date and time he asked me to be his. The time was 10:20 pm. We got back together again in college and guess what time it was when he decided to ask the question? It was 10:20 am. No bull shit. Just fate. I am publishing this post at 10:20 am today. 🙂 Let it be (D)etermined to Last: We keep eachother entertained. We communicate and LISTEN to each other and we are considerate of one another. I keep him informed of my plans and always in the loop of what is going on with me so he feels involved and his opinion appreciated. But most important, we are in Love. Happy Anniversary My Love! xOXo, Your B.A.D Girl