All posts tagged: sex

A B.A.D Girl in Love is Never Scared to Get Sexy!

Be (B)eautiful: Get sexy this Valentine’s Day with some lingerie pieces from Fredericks of  Hollywood! Be (A)uthentic: If there is one thing a B.A.D girl doesn’t do its FAKE an orgasm!  He will think everything was satisfactory and won’t learn what it takes to actually get you off.  Just give him a passionate kiss afterward to show that you still enjoyed it and work towards the goal during the next round. Be (D)etermined: Get your night started while sippin’ on a glass of Love Potion 214. This afrodisatic drink is guaranteed to get you and your partner in the mood for some good lovin.’ I am giving away a bottle to 2 lucky readers! If you haven’t done so already ENTER HERE. Deadline is this Friday!!

Relationship Advice: Respect yourself and your body. Sex doesn’t mean love.

Let it be (B)eautiful: A woman who respects herself and her body is way sexy. Let it be (A)uthentic: You deserve to be happy with someone all the time not just when your naked. Be real with yourself, are you happy with your current situation being based on pure physicality or do you want something more? Let it be (D)etermined to Last: Sleeping with someone will not, I repeat NOT make them want to take you seriously or pursue a committed relationship. So please don’t ever think this will be the case even if he says so. Getting it on should not be a prerequisite for relationship 101. So don’t be pressured into doing something you don’t want to do, especially for a guy! “If you want to be respected by others the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you.” So B.A.D Girls  in your experience has hooking up ever led to a serious relationship?

“You get better sex when you know your own body. How can you expect a man to know your body when you don’t know what pleases you?” ~Eva Longoria

Be (B)eautiful: Looking sleazy is not sexy. Here is a good rule of thumb to follow when dressing up to keep it classy yet still look sexy.  If you are showing legs/booty keep the girls up top (boobies) in hiding. If you want to let the girls come out and play a little bit than throw on some jeans or a longer bottom. Be (A)uthentic: There are plenty of women who, in the interest of being nice, have ended up sleeping with people with whom they later realized we wouldn’t even have a cup of coffee with. If this is you there is no need to beat yourself up over it, but it is definitely not okay to continue this now that you are a BAD girl! Get in touch with yourself and choose carefully the people with whom we share our bodies. Be (D)etermined: A good girl has sex because she is doing it to make her partner happy. A BAD girl has sex to make HERSELF as well as her partner happy.  This …

“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.” ~ Judy Garland

Let it be (B)eautiful: Take your guy to see a movie, preferably a guy flick like “The A-Team.”  Try to actually get into it- action movies aren’t as bad as you may think. More importantly he will appreciate it. Let it be (A)uthentic: Real love is more than just physical. There is an emotional as well as a mental connection. The two of you should feel connected and your relationship shouldn’t be based solely on great sexual chemistry. That chemistry will fizzle out if there is nothing deeper supporting it. Let it be (D)etermined to Last: Every person I have ever met with a long-lasting relationship has said the same thing to me “I just knew.” When you find that right person you will feel it so strong that any doubts will be non-existent. It’s a feeling that can’t be put into words, but only summed up as “I just know.”  If you don’t know then it may be a no-go.

“I love his big ego” ~Beyonce

Let it be (B)eautiful: Your ego can be a big bitch sometimes. But when you really love someone your ego shouldn’t be a third person in the relationship. Haven’t you heard – Three is a crowd? Learn to drop it and just admit it when you are wrong. Let it be (A)uthentic: Being creative and original keeps your relationship exciting and fresh. When it comes to birthdays, holidays, anniversaries, special occasions, its your time to show just how much you love your partner.  Anyone can get your guy a ‘congratulations’ card for his new promotion- as his significant other your gift should be better! Buy him something personalized for his office/desk, put up cute signs around your home reading “Welcome home Mr. VP of Finance”, or dress up as a naughty assistant and tell him you are ready for your first assignment! Get creative! Let it be (D)etermined to last: As determined women we strive to be at our best and to get ahead in our careers. However, as a B.A.D girl we must not …

“I am my own heroine.” ~Marie Bashkirtseff

Be (B)eautiful: Some of you may not even be thinking about wrinkles, BUT its important to take care of yourself while you’re young so your body can repay  you as you get older. Here is a tip: Get in the habit of not squinting your eyes, furrowing your brows, and AVOID allowing that ugly number 11 from appearing on your forehead. On days that I don’t  have shades and the sun is causing me to scrunch my face up- I place my hand on my forehead to shade my eyes and to smooth out my skin so that I don’t cause the number 11 (wrinkles on your forehead in  between your brows) to happen.   Be (A)uthentic: As a BAD girl- you are pulled in so many directions. You have parties, events, dates, work, school,gym, etc. It is SO important to get in some ME time. Even if it’s just going to get a manicure by yourself. Shut off your phone and just relax. Enjoy your own thoughts, get a massage, take a walk or …